On a recent podcast episode, Michelle Obama and Kylie Kelce opened up about a shared experience that many tall women can relate to—the struggle of being a tall woman in a world that often favours shorter women, especially when it comes to dating. The discussion shed light on an important yet often overlooked issue—how height can affect social dynamics and romantic relationships.
As a former First Lady, Michelle Obama is no stranger to public scrutiny. Still, in her conversation with Kylie Kelce, wife of retired NFL player Jason Kelce, she revealed how even she faced challenges growing up with her height. Standing at 5’11”, both Obama and Kelce have been part of a community of tall women who feel like they are often overlooked when it comes to finding a partner who matches their stature.
In this article, we explore the highlights of their conversation, offering insight into the personal experiences of these two high-profile women and their perspectives on height in relationships.
The Height Struggle: Michelle Obama and Kylie Kelce Bond Over Common Challenges
Both women, towering at nearly six feet tall, know exactly what it feels like to face social pressures related to their height. During the podcast, Kelce admitted that she had always looked forward to having this conversation with Obama. “We are both 5’11”,” she noted, sharing how she had always bonded over this aspect with friends who are shorter.
Michelle Obama jokingly commented, saying, “What I say, normal height,” a phrase she uses to embrace her stature. While many shorter women may feel that they are the “average size,” Obama and Kelce find humour in the way they’re often viewed in a different light because of their height.
The “Tall Girl” Experience: Why Tall Women Are Left Out of the Conversation
A key part of their conversation focused on the frustrations of tall women who find themselves in relationships where the man is significantly shorter. This often leads to women feeling like they’re left to fight for the right to date taller guys. Obama candidly admitted that she has been irritated in the past when she saw women who were much shorter than her dating taller men.
“Doesn’t it irritate you when the wee people take the tall guys?” Obama remarked, alluding to the tendency of shorter women to pair up with much taller men. Kelce, who shares Obama’s height of 5’11”, nodded in agreement. She even mentioned how, growing up, she would often joke with her sister about the fact that shorter girls would end up with guys who were 6’5”.
This revelation struck a chord with listeners everywhere. Many tall women are accustomed to being passed over for partners who are closer to their height, and they can relate to the notion that height imbalances in relationships are more common than they’d like to admit.
A History of Dating Challenges: From High School to Adulthood
Michelle Obama recalled her teenage years and the challenges she faced while dating taller guys. She shared stories of dating athletes on her older brother’s basketball team but noted that these guys were often dishonest about their height.
“It was always funny because they’d lie about how tall they were,” Obama confessed, shedding light on the weird dynamics that come with height differences. As tall women, both Obama and Kelce are no strangers to the feeling of being made to fit into a mould that doesn’t always suit them.
Confidence in Your Height: Michelle Obama’s Journey of Self-Acceptance
Michelle Obama went on to explain that her confidence in her height came with time, and her upbringing played a significant role in shaping her perspective. Growing up, Obama was the only girl among her cousins and had a brother who was particularly athletic. She was often the tomboy trying to keep up with the boys, which gave her a certain comfortability with her height.
Kelce, too, shared her own experiences with height acceptance, mentioning how, in high school, she would occasionally complain about the societal preference for shorter women when it came to dating. “You can’t save that for us [tall girls]?” Kelce quipped, explaining how she often wished that tall women had the chance to date taller men just as frequently as their shorter counterparts.
The Power of the Heel: Embracing Height and Confidence
In addition to their conversations about dating, Michelle Obama and Kylie Kelce also bonded over their shared love of wearing heels. For many tall women, high heels can be a source of both confidence and discomfort. While some might shy away from adding extra height, Obama and Kelce proudly embrace their ability to wear heels without hesitation.
“I love a heel. Right?” Obama exclaimed, sharing how she’s never been afraid of adding a few inches to her height. Kelce echoed her sentiment, stating, “I do not shy away, especially in my adult life. I do not shy away from a heel.” The conversation was a celebration of their height and a defiance of the conventional beauty standards that sometimes discourage taller women from embracing their full stature.
Why We Need More Conversations About Tall Women’s Experiences
The podcast conversation between Michelle Obama and Kylie Kelce is a refreshing look at how height shapes our social interactions and romantic relationships. In a world where short women often dominate the dating scene, it’s important to give tall women the space to voice their experiences and embrace their height without feeling self-conscious.
By discussing these challenges openly, Obama and Kelce have started an important conversation about the unique struggles tall women face in society. The message is clear: tall girls deserve first dibs on tall guys—and there’s no shame in standing tall.
Conclusion: Empowering Tall Women Everywhere
Michelle Obama and Kylie Kelce’s candid conversation on the podcast resonates with tall women worldwide. The challenges they face in the dating world are real, but so is the confidence and pride they feel in their height. By speaking out, they’ve empowered others to embrace their stature and to demand the dating dynamics they deserve.
Tall women should feel proud of their height and take pride in being who they are. So the next time you see a tall woman rocking a pair of heels, or standing next to a guy a few inches shorter than her, remember: she’s not just tall—she’s also owning her space.
Relevant Links for Further Reading
- Michelle Obama’s Official Website
- Kylie Kelce’s Instagram
- Women’s Height Stereotypes
- Confidence and Body Image Tips
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